Submitted by Alice – I have recently noticed some troubling things and am writing for help to determine if these are signs my husband is having an affair. I have been with my husband for 6 years and we have one 4 year old child. We have had our share of ups and downs and have seemed to struggle more with arguments every since I was pregnant and had to leave my job. Now lately I have noticed my husband acting more distracted when he comes home form work and on the weekends. He often doesn’t want to go out places or be seen with me shopping or at the mall. The most troubling thing I’ve noticed is he is wearing new clothes and dressing differently for the past several weeks. He even is styling his hair and wearing cologne which he hasn’t worn in years. When I ask him if he wants to go shopping he starts acting weird and has even picked a fight right after I asked on one occasion. Now, he’s talking about joining a gym, losing weight and getting in shape. I want to think he’s doing all of this for good reasons but since he is not treating me good I’m thinking the worst. Do you think he is cheating or considering cheating on me?