To some people, there seems to be no possible way on how to catch a cheating spouse on Craigslist. How would you be able to filter through all the accounts that are in this site and slog through the anonymity of the people posting ads there as well? There can literally be no easy way to track your spouse’s activity on the internet especially if one deletes their computer and browser history right after they use it. It may sound like there is no fool proof way, but if you really want to catch your spouse, you can find many ways to do it. There are several easy ways in which you can do this.
Searching the Computer
For starters you can try searching your spouses computer for any saved phone numbers or illicit information. You can usually accomplish this by clicking on the Windows icon in the bottom left of the desktop and entering a search query from the “start search” form. A helpful hint is to try entering in a phone number area code to search all the saved phone numbers with that area code on the computer.
Check Temporary Internet Files
By searching the saved internet browser searches you may be able to see where your spouse has been online. However, most tech savvy cheaters have learned long ago how to delete their browser search history. This technique may not work too well these days.
Use a Keystroke Logging Program
The amount of information that you can get will depend on the type of software that you use. A remote desktop spy will let you see what is going on in your computer in real time. It can also provide you with screenshots of the web pages that he has or is currently viewing. You can find a remote desktop spy from this link: Win Spy Monitoring Software
A keylogger on the other hand, will give you a list of all the keystrokes that your spouse had entered on the computer. This allows you find what his secret accounts are on the internet, as well as the passwords to those accounts. You will also be able to see screenshots of the pc as well as printouts of messages that he had sent through chat or email. You will know the websites that he had visited and what he actually did there.
Installing a hidden keylogger program is an effective way to find out your partners browsing history. These programs can be secretly installed to run hidden in the background and carefully record every keystroke made on a specific computer. You can buy your own keylogger to help catch a cheating spouse from this link. Always keep in mind that there will be consequences to your actions. You may get caught by your mate or you may find out that there really is no affair and you may feel guilty about snooping.
Tracking the Whereabouts of Your Husband or Wife
There is an assortment of tracking equipment available to keep tabs on him or her. Things like portable GPS devices that relies on satellites can be used to maintain a fix on your spouses location throughout the day. There are also semen detectors and a variety of other devices that can be helpful in picking up the scent of wrongdoing in a relationship.
Click this link to search for spy equipment to help catch a cheater.
Using a Voice Activated Recorder To Catch Someone Cheating
By placing a small voice activated recorder in near the phone, computer or place where your spouse might go to make a phone call can be a helpful way to find the truth. These small recorders can be easily concealed and will activate every time a sound is made in their vicinity.
Going Through Their Cell Phone
Checking the call history of your partners phone can be a quick way to search for phone numbers of a possible mistress or fling. You can enter the phone number in Google to see if there is any history or person attached to it. You can try using a reverse phone search if you find any number that look suspicious.
Google His/Her Email Address
If you know the email address they might be using for contacting discreet hookups you can try entering it in Google to determine if anything appears on public dating sites.
Access Their Email
Well, this ones pretty obvious, but if you can manage to track down their email password and access their account you may be able to see pretty plainly if they have been unfaithful. Especially check their sent folder or drafts as many people forget to clear these for some reason. From their email you’ll be able to see if they have signed up to dating sites,placed a Craigslist Ad or sent or received any responses.
Search the Craigslist Website
By searching through the listings in your area in the casual encounters or men looking for women sections, and the men looking for men, women looking for men, or women looking for women you may be able to find a post they have made. If you find a suspicious post that may be them you can set up a trap to help catch them. To do this you could sign up for a fake email addresses using gmail or yahoo mail with a fake name. If you seriously think its your partner then you would need to respond to the ad and start correspondence. A possible way to do this would be to send a fake picture of an attractive person and ask for their picture in response. This would get you the proof you need to finally catch them.
Craigslist may be one of the best places to cheat on the internet, but not so if you know how to catch somebody there. You can do this by using one of the methods listed above.
My boyfriend of three years was behaving suspiciously. He had lied to me in the past so I knew there was no point in asking him what was going on. One night I posted a fake ad on Craigslist and pretended to be a younger woman in a nearby city looking for “fun”. When I woke up the next morning and checked my email, there was message from him along with pictures (including one naked picture). I pretended to be the other woman and wrote back. We exchanged a few emails and he invited “me” to dinner and said he would get a hotel room. I was shocked and sickened. I wish I had thought to post a fake ad a year earlier. Anyone who suspects their spouse/partner of cheating should do this, especially if you met them on a dating website in the first place.
I had a feeling my boyfriend was cheating on craigslist when I saw him quickly exit out of the site when I came in to the room. I asked him what he was doing and he said – nothing, then he started talking real fast about looking at boats for sale – but his pattern of speech seamed nervous to me. Then he said something like – hey didnt you have to go to the store to pick up eggs today.
I was like, something doesn’t add up – here he’s acting suspicious and trying to get me out of the house. I managed to get him away from the computer by asking him to check the pressure in my tires. Then I rushed back to the computer to look at his browser history cause I knew he hadn’t had time to clear it. I saw he was looking at sick stuff on casual connections on craigslist and caught him.
My husband has been getting emails in spam saying I saw your add on craiglist and invite for him to chat he said he did not place an add on craiglist please anyone can you help me to catch him
I am terrified something similar is happening to me, my boyfriend of 3 years has been acting super possessive of his phone recently. When we first started dating I found multiple craigslist adds with his picture and multiple nudes. His excuse to me was he had taken them prior to our relationship and that someone must have “hacked” his email account. So I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Two months ago I found a slew of craigslist conversations through his email account asking to meet up with multiple people. Again when I confronted him he said he must have been “hacked”, his excuse was since he downloads a lot of boot leg movies a virus must have been installed and someone’s using a back door into our computer. That’s when I really lost hope in how truthful he was being. But we purchased a virus protection package that cleaned up everything on our computer as well as deleting all of our old email accounts to make sure it wouldn’t happen again. Today I found he’d been going through Craigslist personal encounters again and there was even a response thru his new email asking if they could meet up. I confronted him again about this and he said he was trying to see if there were anymore “fake” posts by him and if he was hacked still. I’ve tried to be open with him and I’ve begged him to just be honest with me and he swears he isn’t cheating. That he’s had multiple chances and he hasn’t taken them. I feel really shaken and heartbroken. I could really use some advice.
I’m sorry, by everything you’ve said it sounds very much like you are dealing with a chronic cheater. I would seek out support through family, friends or counseling to help you deal with this.
My husband has been acting very suspicious and I think he’s been on Craigslist personals so I think he’s cheating how do i find out if he is
My fiancé denies all the posts and repeated emails from Craigslist even the “sent” ones I just found on his email that was supposedly not hooked up to his new phone. I don’t WANT to believe he is doing guys behind my back but the evidence is real and I screenshots all the pages and proof I needed on his phone and sent it to mine so I have proof, he woke up out of a drunken stuper and denied it all even when some sent messages were VERY CLEAR he was in our bathroom wit our floor and our shower curtain (very distinct) in the background 😭 I am heartbroken and confused because we are still sexually actively quite a bit and I want to believe him but it’s OBVIOUS that he’s been sending d*ck pics over CL posts to OTHER MEN!!!!! he’s masculine and somewhat judgemental of gay men and he’s always dated girls so I’m so confused! someone help please I’m at my wits end between his dad passing away two months ago and planning our wedding and this Internet crap! If he’s bi I don’t care I just want to know but he denies denies denies I can’t lose my soul mate someone has to help please! Ugh!
My husband has been distant lately and when denying my sexual advances to him. Considering how I met him (online dating site) I decided to post an ad on CL to see if he was browsing through there. I did this for a month no response from him. I was happy but at the same time pissed because I couldn’t figure out what he was doing behind my back. I week ago I reposted an old ad and I woke up to him not only responding but sending nudes. I entertained it to see how far he would go and he basically was willing to “hook up” that night. I told him it was me and he rushed home from work to try to fix things. I just don’t know what to do. How do I move beyond this.
My husband was acting suspicious for several days, sleeping with his cellphone and making sudden unplanned trips to different stores for vague reasons so I answered an ad in casual encounters that looked like his with a fake name and email while I was in the same room with him(you can even get free phone numbers to use with wifi) and the next day when I left for work I was hardly out of the driveway when my email notification chimed. I pretended to want to meet but I got him to give me his name and phone number so we were texting all the while he thought I was nearby so I invited him to meet me at a nearby address. It was hard to not lose it and tell him it was me but I had to see if he would go through with having anonymous sex with a man because he never admitted to me that he was bisexual. He proclaimed to love me and never cheated on me. So for my own health and safety I could not continue to be with someone who was having risky unprotected sex with complete strangers and then coming home to have sex with me not even thinking of the consequences. Well, of course he showed up and tried very hard to lie and deny his way out of it, but I got the truth I needed and the truth is that when someone is doing this to you, it is not possible that they give a crap about you, if you live or die or go through hell because of their immoral behavior. The bottom line is this, follow your gut, then if you REALLY want the truth and are prepared to face it, then you must catch them in the act. Because if you don’t, they will make you believe that you are just an insecure,jealous person with all of their lies.
Right after my divorce I met someone on Craigslist and fell in love with a man. Six months later I figured out he used fake ID, lied about being divorced, having kids, etc. The worst of all he kept posting ads on Craigslist while we were dating. I knew that those post belonged to him by simply using his age, posting patterns, keywords, etc.and caught him by responding to those ads. He would post a dozen at a time with different topics, descriptions, cities.
Now I am going through a dilemma if I should tell his wife. Don’t want to be involved in a drama but pity his wife. He is a narcissist and the biggest coward I ever met.
To all: TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!! I didn’t for 6 months straight while my husband was cheating. 12 YEARS and 2 children, and I KNEW from before he even actually cheated that he was up to something, and I was immediately aware of SOMETHING after he did. I just didn’t want to believe what my gut was telling me. I called him out repeatedly and all denial. When I found evidence by 100% accident, I found MORE than I ever imagined eventually….point is, a person who is suspicious of another, must have a reason…….unless they’re psychologically unwell. Instincts.
My husband gave me a sexually transmitted disease this year of 2018. They shut down the craigslist encounters March 22, 2018 but he had a bunch of numbers from prior ads. Someone like that (low moral compass) does NOT love you and does not respect you. Get out while you can for your own health and safety please!
Although Craigslist doesn’t have personals anymore they have a page called Hamster something. There is also a page called Myfavcams where you can chat with girls n watch them do whatever it is they do. My bf goes on under different names n ages in different cities so very hard to catch him. I do have evidence tho. He is a one sided sex person n a Narcissist also. Life is hell n very lonely. He ” cut me off ” months ago but since he NEVER did anything I hardly noticed. I have often wondered if he is gay Cruz he once told me he thought a woman’s parts were gross. Good luck.
Well, I have a screwed up story, if you think your life is bad. I cheated on my 1st wife, yes it was totally wrong, and I broke her heart, I regret it even to this day,a little about me, I have been crossdressing since childhood, I have no idea why, but it always gave me a rush, and turned me on, I however did turn bi, I always wanted to try it, then the internet age made it easy, so not only did I meet with guys, but women also, I believe they all knew I was married, then I met my now wife though plentyoffish, we both went to a local business college, so I seen her pic and emailed her, she reconized me and we began to chat on yahoo, met her in person, eventually slept with her, we were seeing each other for a few years, one nite we got into a bad accident, well, it was divorce time for me, well I stayed with the girl I had met, she eventually found out my back ground talking to each other, she was fine with it, and actually liked the idea, I was bi and crossdresser, well, it was a long hard road for us, break up a few times, she cheated on me, goes to show, what goes around comes around, and boy did it hurt, well, the guy she choose happen to be a neighbor that used to smoke week with her constantly, I did drink alot, so I cant exactly blame her for leaving me, although she kinda walked the fence line between us both incase it didnt work out for her, I figured this all out since I got sober, well, we married in 2014, after a year or so she started acting weird towards me, she was back to talking to this guy, and getting high again, although both swear up and down nothing happened, I have my doubts after finding so many texts and calls and it was everyday for only God knows how long, he would be out of town all week and home every friday Saturday and Sunday, I was working 3rd shift then 2nd shift , one friday I decided to stay home and work on my car, some how I came across her viberater was missing, of course she got upset when I called her and asked why, she said she took it to work cause her client slept most the day, and she’d get bored, well I kinda think she would pick up her daughter friday evening and drop her off at the football game at school, then meet up with either the neighbor or someone else, I didnt know, but she swore she didnt, I guess she cant comprehend that her talking, texting seeing this guy behind my back really bothers me, mainly because I dont trust her, and this guys afraid of me, well recently I found a ad on craigslist under community, then lost connections a guy from the same area that she was working in at the time was looking for a girl he used to only perform oral on, so I answered his ad and asked if her first name was the same as my wifes, but not letting him know I was her husband, he said yes it was in fact her name, so he described her body, light colored hair, dark SUV, early 40’s, but he also added she had a dimple in her chin. Which didnt match, and said she usually came over early evenings on fridays or later evenings on sunday but always wore a dress for easy access, which that didnt fit since she gained some weight, but not impossible, he said it was always dark out so he couldn’t account for details on tattoos, or scares, I did end up telling her I emailed him, and she did look puzzled, but yeah, it is so hard to catch someone sometimes or most the time, the lies get easier to tell, I know this from my own experience, she really has no reason to cheat, I only told her if she finds someone just to have sex, I want to be there, just dont lie, and I also forgot, we both have hsv2, I had her get tested when she came back to me the 1st time, so I hope to God she isnt spreading this if she is cheating, sometimes herpes doesnt show up right away, it can lay dormant for a few years till one day it decides to pop up.
Craigslist does have personals. Just caught mine on there. It’s under activities . These little whores will never go away and these asshole ungrateful pricks will always smell them a mile away.
Try also Craigslist pro. Yup there too.