If you found an unused condom in your husbands car or in their clothing, then there is a possibility he’s hiding something. However, if you found a condom wrapper then he definitely has some explaining to do. Most likely your first impression is to think that he’s cheating on you. Before you jump to any conclusions it’s a good idea to think things through.
In the case of finding an unused condom you first need to consider the following. Do you guys use condoms and possibly he put it there instead so he can be spontaneous with you later? It would help if you can remember wear he was going the day he left the condom there. This way you can see if their was any other suspicious circumstances about that day in particular. If you can’t narrow down the day then you should be on the lookout for any other signs of cheating you can find.
It’s a good idea to have as much information as possible before you confront him about finding an unused condom. This way if he denies knowing about where it came from you have multiple problems to address. The best advice would be to collect your thoughts, gather as much suspicious facts as you can and calmly approach him about it.
Now if you found a condom wrapper in his car, or on him you really need to find out what’s going on. When you question him about it, make sure that you look at him directly for any signs of evasion or dishonesty. Be prepared if he says he found it and picked it up, or that he loaned his car out to one of his friends. Go with your gut instinct to tell if he’s telling you the truth. Just remember that to get the truth you may need to make him feel like there is minimum amount of judgment as a result. That you only wish to know the truth so you can move on. Once you know if he’s really cheating, then you can decide whether you wish to work on the relationship or file for divorce.
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I have found a personal lubricant paper but no bottle in the visor of my husbands truck and 5 pills remaining from a 30ct package of enhancers, I have none of these in our home whats up with that?
I would definitely think something may be going on. However, before you think he is cheating have you considered that your husband may be masturbating in the car? Finding personal lubricant is better than finding a condom or wrapper. Have you noticed other cheating signs like coming home late or acting suspicious?
I think that finding a condom in your husbands car would be a definite troubling sign of cheating. He better have a really good explanation for why he would have a condom there, especially if he is not using them with you.
For Cindy above who found the personal lubricant in her husbands car I would think by itself that this means he may just be playing with his thing. (hopefully) However, when you include finding enhancers it could be much more serious. I didn’t know what enhancers were until searching google just now. Turns out these are also known as poppers. Many gays use poppers to enhance their sex!?! Do you think your husband could have homosexual tendencies? I would start asking some serious questions because finding lubricant and enhancers may be an indication of him cheating on you with other men! (gay sex) As you know do to the risks of HIV and Aids this could be life threatening for you! I don’t mean to alarm you just want you to know the potential risks of having sex with a man engaged in these types of sexual habits. I wish you the best!