If you found an unused condom in your husbands car or in their clothing, then there is a possibility he’s hiding something. However, if you found a condom wrapper then he definitely has some explaining to do. Most likely your first impression is to think that he’s cheating on you. Before you jump to any conclusions it’s a good idea to think things through.
In the case of finding an unused condom you first need to consider the following. Do you guys use condoms and possibly he put it there instead so he can be spontaneous with you later? It would help if you can remember wear he was going the day he left the condom there. This way you can see if their was any other suspicious circumstances about that day in particular. If you can’t narrow down the day then you should be on the lookout for any other signs of cheating you can find.
It’s a good idea to have as much information as possible before you confront him about finding an unused condom. This way if he denies knowing about where it came from you have multiple problems to address. The best advice would be to collect your thoughts, gather as much suspicious facts as you can and calmly approach him about it.
Now if you found a condom wrapper in his car, or on him you really need to find out what’s going on. When you question him about it, make sure that you look at him directly for any signs of evasion or dishonesty. Be prepared if he says he found it and picked it up, or that he loaned his car out to one of his friends. Go with your gut instinct to tell if he’s telling you the truth. Just remember that to get the truth you may need to make him feel like there is minimum amount of judgment as a result. That you only wish to know the truth so you can move on. Once you know if he’s really cheating, then you can decide whether you wish to work on the relationship or file for divorce.
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